FREE ESSAY ON MARRIAGE A LEGAL FORM OF SLAVERY

MARRIAGE A LEGAL FORM OF SLAVERY

Marriage: A Legal Form of Slavery
In the society of Mill's time period a woman's destiny was to be dainty, delicate,
patient and graceful. She grew up without education, without having a career and without
having the right to vote on laws and issues that pertained to her. The only choice that
these women had was to get married and with this marriage she gave away every right that
she had. In other words she is now worse off that a slave that actually had more rights
and privileges than she. After marriage she has nothing of her own to claim not even her
children. Men did not care about her rights, they grew up with a mind set that they
controlled everything, that their wives were to be obedient and that their offspring were
his and he claimed them as his and only his if the woman were to leave. 
Every little boy was raised with this sense of superiority. A woman could not do what a
man could; she could not be educated because her role was to be a mother and nothing
else.
With a woman decided to marry it wasn't always of her choice, it was more of that there
was no other opportunity for her. When married everything that she owned was now her
husbands, including anything valuable that was hers. She could not even claim her
children as her own even if her husband were dead. If he left his children to someone
other than his wife she may have not even been able to see them. Anything that the wife
did her husband was responsible for. She was more or less treated as if she were a child
herself. A husband could also beat his wife or commit spousal rape without any
punishment. As Mill says that, "Men are not required, as a preliminary to the 
marriage ceremony, to prove by testimonials that they are fit to be trusted with the
exercise of absolute power," he means that what they may say does not mean that is what
they are held to and do in their marriage (Mill 35). Even though in most marriages the
husbands are not power hungry against their own wives, a married woman is worse off than
a slave in that day of age.
A slave compared to a married woman has more rights than she does. A slave can claim
their own valuable properties and does not have to hand anything of theirs over to their
slaveholder. Unlike a married woman a slave is not a slave all hours of the day. He has a
fixed schedule of chores that he does in a day and once they are completed he is son. A
slave does have a life of his own when he is off duty. A slave also has time for his own
family when he is not working. A married woman is always on duty; she has no time for
herself to make a life of her own. She is totally committed to her husband and all of his
needs without time for herself. Slaves can actually have time for themselves and do what
they please in their own interests. What Mill is trying to say is that as a married woman
she has lesser rights than that of a slave. Mill shows a good parallel comparing a woman
to a slave, which makes an impact on male readers that did not think very highly of black
slaves. That is why this analogy is very good. Saying that slaves have more rights than
their women might make men think of why it is that slaves have these rights and women do
not. 
In conclusion Mill did a good job of getting his point across and in an interesting way.
Saying that since marriage is legal and women are treated worse than slaves it is a legal
form of slavery. This is true in many situations of this time. The best point that is
made is that a slave is not a slave all hours of the day and does have a life of his own.
Many women did not have this luxury unless they were of an upper class, which made all
the difference in that society. If a woman were of an upper class she had more rights
than one of a lower class, in the case of divorce. Mill compares marriage to a "partner
in business that one partner shall have entire control over the concern, and the others
shall be bound to obey his orders (Mill 39)." This sentence summarizes his whole point
about marriage and how the wife has no rights in it. He keeps in mind that a majority of
his readers are going to be upper class men. . Mills' expression of comparing a woman to
a slave is insightful and original for the reader.