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ROMEO AND JULIET

The names Romeo and Juliet have passed in our language as a symbol for love. For
centuries, no story of love has been more influential, prominent and emotional than The
Tragedy of Romeo and Juliet. In the extraordinary track of the play, the unconquerable
love, heroic actions, and faithful vows of the two lovers finger our hearts hard like a
spiky thorn and soft like the delicate silk. Who is to blame for the deaths in the play?
Friar Laurence certainly holds the responsibility. He marries the two lovers, offers
Juliet to drink the potion, fails to send the letter to Romeo in time,and runs selfishly
away from the vault for fear of trouble.
Friar Laurence marries Romeo and Juliet even though he forebodes that this hasty marriage
may lead to a catastrophic outcome. When Romeo informs Friar Laurence about his marriage
to Juliet, the Friar hesitates because their love emerges too sudden and too unadvised
that it may end just as quick: 
These violent delights have violent ends
And in their triumph die, like fire and powder,
Which, as they kiss, consume (II, VI, l. 9-11).
The Friar, in particular, questions Romeo's temperament towards love. The love of Romeo
to Rosaline shows that Romeo is fickle, superficial and immature towards love: 
Is Rosaline, that thou didst love so dear, 
So soon forsaken? Young men's love then lies
Not truly in their hearts, but in their eyes (II, III, l. 70-72). 
Despite these misgivings, Friar Laurence chooses to marry Romeo and Juliet because this
may help end the feud:
In one respect I'll thy assistant be,
For this alliance may so happy prove
To turn your households' rancor to pure love (II, III, l. 97-99). 
Being a religious and holy man, the Friar always believes the good side of things.
However, he should have a second thought, for the feud between the two families has been
ancient and brutal. Can the alliance of Romeo and Juliet really help to end the feud? If
it can't, then is he aggravating the matter by allowing Romeo and Juliet to be together?
Should he rule this marriage without the acknowledgement of their parents? Later on, this
marriage does provoke a brawl, which takes the lives of Mercutio, Tybalt, and Lady
Montague. Had Friar Laurence not made Romeo a relative to the Capulets by marrying him to
Juliet: Mercutio would not have been slain by Tybalt; Romeo would not have killed Tybalt
for revenge; and Lady Montague would not have died from the grief of Romeo's banishment.
The Friar offers Juliet the potion, which hypnotizes her for 42 hours in order to avoid
the marriage with Paris. When Paris finds Juliet dead on the day of their marriage, he
feels being cheated and angry towards Juliet:
Beguiled, divorced, wronged, spited, slain!
Most detestable death, by thee beguiled,
By cruel, cruel thee quite overthrown!
O love! O life! Not life, but love in death! (IV, V, l.62 - 64)
In spite of his anger, his love for Juliet is truthful. On night of that day, Paris lays
flower on Juliet's tomb and weeps for her death: The obsequies that I for thee will keep
nightly shall be to strew thy grave and weep (V, III, l. 16-17). When Romeo is present,
Paris becomes enraged and blames Romeo on murdering Juliet by slaying her dear cousin
Tybalt. Paris draws out his sword and tries to avenge Romeo for Juliet's death but in
time slain by Romeo:  O, I am slain! If thou be merciful, open the tomb; lay me with
Juliet (V, III, l. 72-73). Paris devotes his love to Juliet and is willing to die with
her, but predetermined fate means that Juliet's affinity with Romeo comes before her
marriage to Paris. If Friar Laurence didn't plan to let Juliet drink the potion and die,
Paris would still be alive.
Friar Laurence is to blame for the death of Romeo for he fails to send the letter, which
informs him about the plan. The Friar depends his entire plan on a letter to Romeo:
In the meantime, against thou shalt awake,
Shall Romeo by my letters known our drift,
And hither shall he come, and he and I 
Will watch thy waking (IV, I, l.115-118).
The Friar makes his plan in such a hustle that he hasn't thought about the possible
failures or an alternate plan. When Romeo hears that Juliet is dead, he blames fate for
taking Juliet's life: Is it e'en so? Then I defy you, stars! (V, I, l.25). Romeo hurries
to Juliet's vault where he drinks the drug and dies beside his love: Here is to my love.
O true apothecary, thy drugs are quick. Thus with a kiss I die (V, III, l.11-12). If
Romeo had received the letter from the Friar, his state of mind and actions would have
been completely different. 
Lastly, the Friar's selfishness is to blame for the death of Juliet. When Juliet wakes
up, the Friar tells her that Romeo is dead and his whole plan is abolished. He directs
Juliet to escape with him before the watch comes: 
Come, I'll dispose of thee 
Among a sisterhood of holy nuns.
Stay not to question, for the watch is coming.
Come, go, good Juliet. I dare no longer stay. (V, III, l. 161-164) 
Juliet refuses to leave, and the Friar exits selfishly for fear that he will be in
trouble if anyone finds out his involvement in the affair. If the Friar did stay with
Juliet and took the dagger out of her hand in time, Juliet would not have irrationally
killed herself.
The hasty marriage, wrongful use of the potion, failure to send the letter, and
selfishness of the Friar are the causes for the deaths that occurred in the play. In
spite of the many coincidences and references to heaven and stars, Romeo and Juliet
however, is not totally a tragedy of fate. Each character has his/her freewill and is
responsible for his/her actions. The tragedy of Romeo and Juliet should be designated as
the failure of human responsibility or human error rather than fate. Who should be blamed
for this tragedy may remain long controversial, but the story of the two star-crossed
lovers will remain timelessly in the world of literature. For never was a story of more
woe, than this of Juliet and her Romeo (V, III, l.320-321).
Bibliography
Romeo and Juliet book